Break through fears and limitations

• Fear of failure
• Fear of success
• Fear of rejection
• Fear of pain
• Fear of the unknown

The quality of my life is the quality of my personal communication.

• No matter of what happens to you in your life, it’s not what happens that makes the difference in quality of your life, rather what you do with what happens.
• For things to get better, “you” have to get better.

Knowledge is not enough

Personal Power

The ability to take action

Ex. Colonel Sanderson: You must try; get yourself in action until you succeed

It doesn’t matter who intelligence you have. What matters is how much action you can produce

Affirmation without discipline is the beginning of delusion; affirmation with discipline produces results

3 Steps to Personal Power

Energy

Skill

1. Skill or ability to specifically define exactly what it is that you want
2. Skill or ability to specifically define exactly what others want; fill others needs quickly & elegantly

Turning Fear into Power

NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming)

How language verbal or non-verbal affects your nerve system

• Anything that any human being can do, so can I. We all share the same neurology; we all have the same nerve system. It’s a matter of how to use it.

Modeling

Three Keys to Duplicating Any Form of Human Excellence

1. The belief systems of the successful person
   Whether you say you can do something or whether you say you can’t, you are right
2. Mental syntax: the order in which we use our five senses determines what part of our brain and nerve system we use in the kinds of results we generate
   “Johnny bit the dog.” – Order and sequence
3. Physiology: posture, breathing patterns, tonality, facial expressions, muscular tension / relaxation: determines how people use their brains

7 Disciplines of Success

1. I always act from personal power
   Fear prevents people from taking action
   Fear of failure: The biggest fear
   “I realize that there are no failures. There are only results / outcomes.” “I always succeed in producing results.”
2. “I’m totally responsible for my world. I create every experience in life. I take charge of my life”
   As you think, so you become
3. I’m always stretching. If you can’t, you must.

1)   Make a commitment to yourself to something that seems to be beyond your present ability

2)   Make a public declaration to keep people to make a huge difference and causing you to do whatever it takes to succeed

3)   Model someone who’s already producing the results

4)   Follow the model and if you don’t know what to do, act if as you do: Take away the limiting beliefs and allow you to get access to resources that you really have as an incredibly human being

4. “I’m committed to unconscious competence rather than cognitive understating.”
   Cf. Electricity
   Pick the fruits and study the routes later
5. I always act from personal integrity.
   Your integrity is deferent than mine.
   “No matter how thin you slice, there’s always two sides.”
   I always lie with integrity: Remember your beliefs are just your own and keep your beliefs. As long as you believe they are true, make sure your daily actions match your belief systems.
6. The meaning of the communication is the response that you get
   If you want them to get your communication, change your approach

7 Character Traits of Super-Successful People

1. Passion
   “What could I get passion about life right now?”
2. Belief to achieve
3. Strategies
4. Values
   Clear about what’s most important in your life
   Look at your values and look at the ways in which you could have your values working together rather than fighting each other
5. Energy
   Change some of your dietary patterns
6. Bonding power
   Have the sense of connection with others
7. Communication skills