For far too many, the dream is dissipated and with it, so is the will to shape our destinies.<\/p>\n
Controlled focus is like a laser beam. <\/strong><\/p>\n How can I take immediate control of my life? What can I do today to really make a difference that can help make me shape my destiny?<\/p>\n Take control of our consistent action<\/p>\n Decisions: everything that happens in your life begins with your decision<\/p>\n Set a baseline standard for what you\u2019re accepting in your life<\/p>\n \u201cTell me a functional family.\u201d<\/p>\n It\u2019s not conditions of your life that determines your destiny; it\u2019s your decision.<\/p>\n Get past your excuses.<\/p>\n Make a \u201creal\u201d decision. Making a true decision means cutting off any other possibility. Making a true decision means committing to achieving a result and cutting yourself off from any other possibility.<\/p>\n \u201cI am not discouraged because every wrong discarded is another step forward.\u201d \u2013 Thomas Edison<\/p>\n Cf. Niagara Syndrome<\/p>\n Cf. Mr. Honda<\/p>\n All personal breakthroughs begin with the change in our beliefs<\/span><\/p>\n 1) Make sure your new belief fits into your core beliefs and values<\/p>\n 2) Test these new strategies are firmly installed and working in concert<\/p>\n a) Make certain that the pain is fully associated with the old pattern<\/p>\n b) Notice and make certain that you\u2019ve linked pleasure to the pattern<\/p>\n c) Make sure you have aligned the new pattern with your values, beliefs and rules<\/p>\n d) Make sure the benefits of the old pattern that\u2019ve maintained<\/p>\n e) Make sure the change will be long-term and that your conditioning have been effective<\/p>\n At least twice a day, rehearse and emotionally enjoy the experience of achieving each one of your most highly valued goals. Every time you do this, you need to create more emotional joy as you see, feel, and hear yourself living your dream.<\/span> <\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" For far too many, the dream is dissipated and with it, so is the will to shape our destinies. Concentration of Power Controlled focus is like a laser beam. How can I take immediate control of my life? What can I do today to really make a difference that can help make me shape my […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[29],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-88","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-self-help"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kidtao.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kidtao.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kidtao.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kidtao.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kidtao.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=88"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.kidtao.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5164,"href":"https:\/\/www.kidtao.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88\/revisions\/5164"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kidtao.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=88"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kidtao.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=88"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kidtao.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=88"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}3 Decisions to Control Our Destiny<\/h3>\n
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4 Step Process for Achieving Success: The Ultimate Success Formula<\/h3>\n
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6 Quick Keys to Harness the Power of Decision<\/h3>\n
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\n Real decision is measured by the fact you\u2019re taking new action<\/li>\n
\n Just decide: Never leave the scene of the decision without taking a specific action toward its realization<\/li>\n
\n Don\u2019t get stuck on the means to achieving it. It\u2019s the result that you\u2019re after
\n Cultivate the art of flexibility<\/li>\n \n
\n <\/span>Cf. Procrastination<\/li>\n Pain\/Pleasure Linkage: Neuro-Associations of Pain & Pleasure<\/h3>\n
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\n Begin to focus on the possibility of the price you\u2019ll pay if you don\u2019t take action and then it\u2019ll change what you associate to that decision
\n Focus on the pain of inaction and on the pleasure of taking action now<\/li>\n<\/ol>\nHow do we change our beliefs?<\/h3>\n
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\n Create doubt: <\/strong>the key to beginning to break up your old beliefs
\n Conviction is a belief that is reinforced by even more powerful references<\/li>\n \n
\n Take equal amount of time and wrist down all the disempowering beliefs that you can think of that have limited you in your past<\/strong><\/li>\n
\n Circle the two most limiting beliefs; look at their consequences; feel the pain that comes with what they are cheating you out of; decide once and for all you\u2019re no longer willing to pay the price that they are charging you for your life<\/strong><\/li>\n
\n Expiring pain, feel challenged, frustrated & angry? \u201cWhat would I have to believe in order to feel the way I do right now?\u201d<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\nNAC (Neuro-Associative Conditioning)<\/h2>\n
2 Shifts & Beliefs to Create Long-Term Change Quickly<\/h3>\n
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6 Master Steps of Change<\/h3>\n
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\n Change the focus: Decide what you do want
\n Be specific
\n We link more pain to make the change than staying where you are<\/li>\n
\n Associate massive pain to not changing now and massive pleasure with experience of changing right now
\n Changing is not a question of capability; it\u2019s a question of motivation
\n Ask yourself pain-inducing questions: \u201cWhat will this cost me if I don\u2019t change?\u201d \u201cWhat will I miss out of my life if I don\u2019t shift now?\u201d \u201cWhat\u2019s already costing me mentally, emotionally, physically, financially, spiritually?\u201d
\n Then, start using pleasure-associating questions: \u201cIf I do change, how would that make me feel about myself?\u2019 \u201cWhat kind of momentum I create if I change this in my life right now?\u201d \u201cHow much happier will I be?\u201d<\/li>\n
\n Think of some of the ways that you can interrupt your own limiting & disruptive patterns: action, word, silly laugh, and disgusting noise
\n Scramble the sensation that we link to our memory. Cf. Your boss yelling at you.
\n See that same situation in your mind that was bothering you so much. Picture it as if it\u2019s a movie. Just watch it one time seeing everything that happened. Take that & turn it into a cartoon. Sit up in your chair with a big silly grin on your face and breathe deeply and run the image backwards as fast as you can. (Watch him swallow his words.) Run through the cartoon forward again in fast motion. Change the colors of the image so everybody\u2019s face is rainbow color. Grow big Mickey Mouse ears on his head then big, long Pinocchio nose. Do this at least dozen times back and forth sideways, scrambling image in your mind, create some goofy music that go along with it.<\/li>\n
\n The simplest way to condition something is just to rehearse it
\n Rehearse your new alternative again and again with tremendous emotional intensity
\n Set yourself up with a schedule to reinforce your new behavior
\n Set up a series of short-term goals or milestones and as you reach each one immediately reward yourself<\/li>\n Creation of Your Future, Your Magnificent Obsession<\/h1>\n
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Personal Development Goals<\/h3>\n
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\n \u201dGoals are dreams with a deadline.\u201d<\/li>\n Career, Business, Economical Goals<\/h3>\n
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Adventure (Toys) Goals<\/h3>\n
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Contribution Goals<\/h3>\n
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