\u201cLife Was Never Meant to Be a Struggle\u201d<\/p>\n
Just a gentle progression from one point to another, much
\n like walking through a valley on a sunny day<\/p>\n
by Stuart Wilde<\/p>\n
1) <\/span>The The nature doesn\u2019t struggle in sustaining itself. Life is a symbol of your innermost thought and feelings: When things go too easy, your inner-self admits an energy The Hero<\/p>\n 1. <\/span><\/span><\/b>The male 2. <\/span><\/span><\/b>The terrorist 3. <\/span><\/span><\/b>The 1. <\/span><\/b>The spiritual wimp: <\/b>Has huge ego, sitting around, being 4. <\/span><\/span><\/b>The Goddess: <\/b>achieves 1. <\/span><\/b>Wilty wallflower:<\/b> She creates more and more dramatic scenario \u00e5<\/span> They\u2019re all stupid. They are playing out their facets of their personality.<\/p>\n 2) <\/span>Identifying The first step in reducing struggle is identifying it. Go \u201cStrugglometer\u201d<\/p>\n 1. <\/span><\/span><\/b>Physical body: <\/b>Weaknesses allow you to enjoy the journey more fully. <\/b><\/p>\n 2. <\/span><\/span><\/b>Emotional 3. <\/span><\/span><\/b>Relationships:<\/b> People reflect back to us what we are. Ask yourself what opinion you hold about 4. <\/span><\/span><\/b>Physical 5. <\/span><\/span><\/b>Finances:<\/b> \u201cIs your life contained and balanced within the money that you do have?\u201d<\/p>\n 6. <\/span><\/span><\/b>Attitude to 7. <\/span><\/span><\/b>Ability to 8. <\/span><\/span><\/b>Ability to 9. <\/span><\/span><\/b>Psychological 10. <\/span><\/b>Spiritual balance:<\/b> Spiritual person is real. He doesn\u2019t play games. He doesn\u2019t have to make See the fake character as real and struggle to maintain 3) <\/span>The Struggles crave acceptance. <\/i>The strugglers have The strugglers often have big egos.<\/i> Because they Struggles feel that the struggle is noble. <\/i>To Strugglers set unrealistic goals. <\/i>See only the Struggles lack understanding: <\/i>physical plane and He worries what others think of them. <\/i>They are Strugglers lack stability.<\/i> Stability is the key to Strugglers often lack concentration.<\/i> Concentration Strugglers have poorly-designed life styles.<\/i> How Struggler lack order.<\/i> Otherwise, you\u2019ll dissipate Strugglers lack concerted action in the market place. <\/i>Strugglers 4) <\/span>Dumping 1. <\/span><\/span><\/b>Opinion: <\/b>Struggle is always how you feel about 2. <\/span><\/span><\/b>Timing:<\/b> Usually takes longer than we think.<\/p>\n 3. <\/span><\/span><\/b>Cast of Characters:<\/b> Some are eminently suitable. 4. <\/span><\/span><\/b>Is the army marching with no boots?<\/b> Have all the 5. <\/span><\/span><\/b>Am I trying to capture a castle I don\u2019t really need or 6. <\/span><\/span><\/b>Am I resisting?<\/b> You have go beyond rigid opinion. 7. <\/span><\/span><\/b>Am I content with conditions? <\/b>If conditions don\u2019t suit 8. <\/span><\/span><\/b>Am I in control? <\/b>It\u2019s OK to get what you want from 5) <\/span>Conclusion<\/p>\n Effort is a part of condition as a physical being. Further, it may take time to reprogram your attitudes for Place yourself in a non-confrontive mode. First, with Toss out one aspect of you life each day that you causes Teach others that life is never meant to be a struggle.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" \u201cLife Was Never Meant to Be a Struggle\u201d Just a gentle progression from one point to another, much like walking through a valley on a sunny day by Stuart Wilde 1) The Struggler\u2019s Hall of Fame The nature doesn\u2019t struggle in sustaining itself. 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\n Struggler\u2019s Hall of Fame<\/p>\n
\n Struggle is an effort laced with emotion and desperation: our physical
\n condition as a human involves effort.<\/p>\n
\n what you believe about yourself.<\/p>\n
\n that says \u201cWarning! Warning!\u201d \u2013 Experience circumstances congruent with our
\n inner-belief: Life is a struggle.<\/p>\n
\n version:<\/b> \u201cI get respect. Everybody acknowledges my heroism.\u201d \u00ae<\/span> Lack of personal acceptance stands out a
\n mile.<\/p>\n
\n type: <\/b>Because he\u2019s uncomfortable with himself, finds he\u2019s unable to deal
\n with society. <\/b>Operates outside the society and finds it hard to accept
\n any one\u2019s help. He wants acceptance, not success. Se he usually self-destructs
\n successes. He fights the system rather than uses it. He never gets what he
\n wants.<\/p>\n
\n professional wimp: <\/b>Lacking in his ability to command life, allows everybody
\n to tow him around by the nose.<\/p>\n
\n special. His failure threatens people. Expect people to treat him life God.<\/p>\n
\n the male counterpart. \u201cPlease, accept me for I\u2019m great.\u201d=\u201dI know I\u2019m weaker.\u201d<\/p>\n
\n of helplessness in order to get attention. She pulls out a litany of disasters.
\n She just wants you to commiserate.<\/p>\n
\n Struggle<\/p>\n
\n into every aspect of your life. Evaluate what you get out of it in relation to
\n what you put in.<\/p>\n
\n balance:<\/b> \u201cIf I create enough fuss, will you love me?\u201d Be more forgiving of
\n yourself. More detached. Everything becomes a lesson. Communication usually
\n works. Avoid conflict. Walk away if the situation is unchangeable or untenable.<\/p>\n
\n the relationship or yourself that causes it not to go the way you want. What is
\n the level of your giving and receiving?<\/p>\n
\n living circumstances:<\/b> \u201cAre you at the mercy of circumstances?\u201d<\/p>\n
\n the world around you:<\/b> If you let the world affect how you feel, what you\u2019re
\n saying is \u201cI don\u2019t make my own decisions.\u201d Do not try to fix things. See the
\n world as an infinite evolution. Leave the world alone and concentrate on
\n yourself.<\/p>\n
\n handle conflict (divergence of opinions):<\/b> To win a moral victory at the
\n expense of your sanity is dumb.<\/p>\n
\n handle stress:<\/b> Stress is natural.<\/p>\n
\n state:<\/b> Anguish is caused by the combination of physical state or opinion<\/p>\n
\n excuses. \u201cI am what I am.\u201d He\u2019s happy with either he\u2019s not all-knowing or he\u2019s
\n perfect.<\/p>\n
\n that. Insecure people play out a character in a play, which is not truth.<\/p>\n
\n Struggler\u2019s Hit-Parade<\/p>\n
\n low self-esteem. By lacking in identity, shift the attention from real inside
\n of themselves to the symbols outside of life. \u201cPlease accept me.\u201d Cf. owning a
\n yacht. Acquisitions have short shelf life.<\/p>\n
\n talk themselves into greater opinions of themselves so they can sustain. Has to
\n be exaggerated because they don\u2019t see worth in what they are. Ego personality
\n goes in the same direction as the higher self, things flow. Ego personality
\n lives the variation of the truth, which is its opinion.<\/p>\n
\n justify the fact that their life is out of control.<\/p>\n
\n goals, not the path. He is trapped by his opinions of how to reach the goal. No
\n other possibilities exist. He often misses shortcuts.<\/p>\n
\n how the marketplace works. Strugglers can\u2019t be bothered. The world owes him a
\n living. He also lacks metaphysical knowledge. <\/i>He goes after life and
\n pushes it away.<\/p>\n
\n very social animals. They are not sure about themselves so they worry about
\n what others think of them. Only you have the answers. Others do not have all
\n the facts. People will always manipulate you into their way of thinking.<\/p>\n
\n a worry-free existence. To have balance and stability, you have to exercise
\n control over every area of life. Develop the power to say no to the situations
\n that are not a part of your overall intention for yourself. You have to be
\n happy about your life right now so your energy moves forward: Don\u2019t have to
\n settle with what you have now. There must be lessons for here and now.<\/p>\n
\n is a key discipline in personal growth and development. Concentrate on a goal
\n until it\u2019s completed. Cf. \u201cThanks for calling, but I can\u2019t talk to you right
\n now. Call back in Christmas.\u201d Through concentration, you become powerful.<\/p>\n
\n you get them with minimum effort. Cut out things that are superfluous. Hold on
\n to a life of simplicity.<\/p>\n
\n energy, wasting time in confusion.<\/p>\n
\n don\u2019t like concerted action.<\/p>\n
\n Struggle<\/p>\n
\n something, your opinions, laced. Laced with negative emotion. Change the way
\n you view things. You feel about something; opinion<\/p>\n
\n First, accept the help of others. Secondly, chooses your characters carefully.
\n You must get the most of them. Cf. popularity contest among kids. Never be
\n afraid to let someone go if they are not right.<\/p>\n
\n components that you need? Just because you love somebody, there\u2019s no reason to
\n marry him. A good general doesn\u2019t commit his troops until he knows what he know
\n what he\u2019s getting into. Cf. publishing a magazine<\/p>\n
\n want?<\/b> Do you actually want the end result? Cf. dating a guy whose brother
\n you love. Give 5 good reasons for saying no. Look for the exit while walking
\n into a relationship or a project.<\/p>\n
\n There are always more than one ways of skinning a rabbit. Look for all the
\n angles that you may have missed.<\/p>\n
\n you, change them.<\/p>\n
\n life.<\/p>\n
\n Struggle is not natural. Have the courage to identify the causes of struggle.
\n All struggles can be eliminated.<\/p>\n
\n more carefree existence because struggle is a programmed response.<\/p>\n
\n yourself and then, with the world around you. The freshness that new energy
\n bring to your life allows your emotions to take on resonating in a calm. In a
\n calm, it allows pull more opportunities to yourself because energy seeks its
\n own kind. Balance and great, good fortune can only come to a person who is
\n balanced and feels fortunate.<\/p>\n
\n difficulty. Make a note of your progress.<\/p>\n